story by Francesca Augello
Don’t Make It Weird (DMIW) is a 501(c)(3) nonprofit, located in Buford, that strives to dismantle the negative stigmas surrounding conversations about mental health. As Kristina Miller – the Vice President and Director of the organization – says, “We’re talking about mental health, so let’s really talk about mental health; even when it gets hard or uncomfortable.”
Started by Buford native and former Ohio State football player Harry Miller and his mom Kristina, this organization was created to provide safe, educational, and supportive spaces for members of the Gwinnett County community and beyond – a place of refuge, security, and fellowship. It’s been open to the public since August 2024, and the positive reaction it has received has been overwhelming. Kristina says one of the most significant lessons she’s learned since DMIW opened its doors is “there are a lot more people in the community who need help than anyone’s aware of. Within the three months since our opening, we’ve already had engagement with 251 people… obviously the need is great.” One can utilize DMIW’s resources by attending classes, gaining peer support, or seeking out specific help that caters to their situation. Kristina describes the organization’s primary goal as “making sure the stigma’s being broken, and that people aren’t afraid to talk about [mental health struggles]. I want them to come here, see this place, and realize it’s not scary at all.”
One of DMIW’s main efforts is providing a safe, secure, and comfortable environment that encourages people struggling with any form of mental distress to formulate connections and communicate their troubles. Kristina elaborates, “Having someone to talk to is so significant… many people either don’t have somebody to talk to or don’t have someone they feel comfortable talking to, and opening up to a stranger that you know is solely there to listen can be a lot easier. They don’t have to be a therapist, but as long as they’re safe, trustworthy, won’t judge you, and there’s a willingness to share experiences with them, they’re the perfect solution. If you can’t find that person, you come here. It’s really that simple.” Promoting genuine camaraderie and spreading positivity are DMIW’s prerogatives, and it’s that combination that has made them a critical staple in this community.
“Being able to help somebody is huge and it causes a ripple effect,” Kristina says. “First you help somebody, then they go out into the community and not only help others but spread the word about DMIW – that’s the goal.”
Don’t Make It Weird’s ability to shine a light on the dark side of mental health is refreshing, honest, and necessary. Their objective is to ignite a movement that focuses on caring for each other, providing support, and practicing compassion to the surrounding community. The legacy DMIW wishes to leave behind is centered around “making a difference; even if we just help one person… it matters that they know that somebody cares. It’s why we keep the doors open and the lights on.” Harry Miller, the President of and inspiration behind DMIW once said, “There are not many jokes nor stories that make light of mental health; the topic is rather morose. However, I believe that it is these heavy subjects and these somber undertakings that require the lightest speech and the brightest actions,” and that’s exactly what DMIW has set out to accomplish.
To learn more about Don’t Make It Weird, seek out resources, view their upcoming events, or donate, go to DMIW.org, or visit their office at 554 W. Main St., Suite 1100, in Buford.■
If you or someone you know is struggling or in crisis, help is available.
Text or call 988, chat through the following link: 988lifeline.org, or reach out to a mental health professional.
